Life Is About Experiences – 25 Experiences To Try Today
“Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things you didn’t do than by the ones you did do. So, throw off the bowlines, sail away from the safe harbour. Catch the trade winds in your sails. Explore. Dream. Discover.”
You Are The Sum of Your Experiences
It’s said that our experiences define us and that we in fact, are the sum of all of our experiences.
Our experiences inform our thoughts, our actions, our decision-making processes, and the opportunities and risks we are willing to take.
When we have a pleasant experience, we are likely to engage in that particular activity or behaviour again because we know it´s safe, comfortable and familiar. Conversely, when we have a negative experience with something or someone, it deters us from engaging with that activity or person again.
So, now think about this – if we are, indeed, the sum of all of our experiences, and if we make a conscious effort to experience new things, then we could potentially reshape ourselves and our lives through our new experiences right?
Moments That Remind Us We´re Alive
It’s common for us to think about all the things we might regret doing, but the truth is we’re far more likely to regret the things that we didn´t do.
It´s easy to get stuck in a rhythm and a routine. And, hey, there´s nothing wrong with a little routine (and the certainty and comfort it brings us). However, life is about moments, connections, memories, and places. Life is at its most magical and wondrous when we put ourselves "out there".
When talking about experiences and the memories that they create, we´re not only talking about dream holiday destinations or holidays; we´re talking about any moment or experience that reminds us we´re alive.
“Life moves pretty fast. If you don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it.”
– Ferris Bueller
“Have You Done Anything Noteworthy or Mentionable?”
If you haven´t already seen the film The Secret Life of Walter Mitty, I’d highly recommend checking it out.
Walter Mitty is a daydreamer who lives an ordinary life working for TIME magazine. He decides to join a dating website in the hope to be matched with a work colleague has a crush on. A representative from the dating agency calls Walter to ask why he has left questions blank on his profile. Walter says he didn´t know what to put down. The representative then asks Walter “Have you done anything noteworthy or mentionable?” to which Walter responds.. that he hasn´t.
This charges when Walter goes on an adventure of a lifetime – through Iceland, Greenland, and beyond - to find the missing photo negative that´s needed for the final TIME magazine cover.
You don´t need to be a daredevil, or go all the way to Greenland like Walter to experience extraordinary moments, they are here to be had in our everyday life. Whether it´s talking to a stranger, trying a new recipe, walking a different route home, or taking a book to a park and just enjoying the sunshine, it´s important to do something different every day and take some time to smell the roses.
Making An Effort
At the end of the day, all we have is our memories, built by moments, experiences, and events. The truth is anytime we make an effort to do something a little out of the ordinary, the chance of creating a memorable moment increases.
If we don´t make a conscious effort, it´s more than possible (its likely) hat we go through life, living each day the same as the one before. You wake up at the same time every day, go to work, come home, make dinner, watch TV, go to sleep. Rinse and repeat.
It’s funny but often it’s the smallest of decisions that can make the biggest impact. The conversations we´re willing to strike up. The experiences we want to have. The places we´re willing to go. The extra little bit of effort we are willing to make.
We can continue doing the same thing every day, or we can make an effort to experience something new and get out there.
"Experience is the teacher of all things."
– Julius Caesar
Just Say “Yes”
Here’s a small little tool to help put yourself out there more. Just say yes more often. Next time, a work colleague asks if you´d like to grab a drink after work, say yes. Next time you are asked to go to lunch, say yes. If there is an after-work social or after work sports team to join, say yes. It´s in our willingness to say “yes” to experiences that create lasting memories and often opportunities too.
It doesn´t have to be an earth-shattering activity to be meaningful or to leave an impression. Simply, every time you do something that is out of the ordinary, it becomes a new experience and we can’t help but grow.
Think back to a time when you took a day trip, or spent a couple of hours with a stranger or acquaintance, or attended an event.. it’s embedded a memory in your mind that cannot be replaced and you can remember these experiences. In contrast, what did you do last Tuesday? Im guessing you’re struggeling to remember any specifics.
Set yourself the challenge to say yes to every social invitation you receive for a month.
The Joy and Experience of Travel
For many of us, travel is one of life´s greatest experiences. As travel writer Freya Stark famously said: “To awaken quite alone in a strange town is one of the pleasantest sensations in the world.”
You can´t put a price on the value of travel. The people we met, the sites we see, the moments we create, are all part of an experience that helps us grow and make our life richer.
Never turn down an opportunity to travel. If a friend invites you to join him or her abroad, your partner suggests the family take a holidays, or you have the long-held dream of going somewhere, do it.
Many people decline the opportunity to travel because they don´t have the money at the time. When reviewing your life in 10 or 20 years, what would you rather remember – going to work like usual or the fact you went on an incredible trip and made some irreplaceable, priceless memories?
Let´s say you have a balance owing on your credit card or a loan to pay off. If you said “yes” to the opportunity on offer, it might mean it takes you 15 months to pay off your balance instead of 12 months. In 10 or 20 years, will those three months really matter? Will those three months matter more than the experience and memories of travelling?
Why We Travel
While certainly, destination plays a big role in how memorable or enjoyable a trip is, one of the reasons we love to travel so much is because we break our routines and escape our everyday lives so get out there, go to South America, always considered planning a trip to Morocco? Take the time and do it. To quote sociologist Charles Horton Cooley, “To get away from one’s working environment is, in a sense, to get away from one’s self; and this is often the chief advantage of travel and change.”
But what if we didn´t need to escape our day-to-day life because we said “yes” more often and every day contained a memorable experience? To that, famed travel writer Bill Bryson says “To my mind, the greatest reward and luxury of travel is to be able to experience everyday things as if for the first time, to be in a position in which almost nothing is so familiar it is taken for granted.”
"For some reason when I travel, I am able to surrender more than in my real life. I am able to let go. I think it's why I like it so much."
– Chelsea Cain
What´s Going On?
There is a popular quote circulating on social media that says “I am thankful for nights that turned into mornings, friends that turned into family, and dreams that turned into reality.” It´s all about the experiences.
Pick up the culture, events or arts section of your local newspaper and see what´s happening in your city. From weekend craft markets, free concerts, music in the park, gallery exhibitions, there is always something on offer.
Let´s take going to the ballet or opera, for example. Even if you´re just mildly curious, do it for the experience. In turn, you will create a lasting memory because it´s something different from your ordinary life.
We´re not suggesting that any of these new experiences or activities will become your new hobbies. It´s not about that. It´s about experiencing things, even if it´s just to know that it´s not for you. How do you know if you like or dislike something without trying? Through experience.
Wherever possible, invite a friend, family member, date, or colleague along to experience these events with you. Memories and moments are more powerful when shared with others.
Relive The Experience Over and Over Again
The wonderful thing about experiences is that they can be recalled and relived over and over again. Sometimes we hear a specific song or smell a certain scent and it takes us back to a particular time and a place. It takes us back to the memory, the experience.
Maybe the trigger brings back memories of a holiday, childhood, a summer romance, or moments spent with family and friends perhaps now gone. Whatever the memory may be, it´s an experience that left a mark and an experience that was significant enough to remember.
Aside from being nice to recall, the lessons we derive from these experiences we use in our every day. They are part of who we are today.
25 Experiences To Try Today
To get the ball rolling, here are some suggestions of everyday experiences:
- Enroll in a foreign language class
- Take a city bus tour in your own city
- Take a cooking class
- Take a dancing class
- Take a guided tour through a museum
- Go to a nightclub and dance into the early hours of the morning
- Take an out-of-city day trip
- Take a photography or art class
- Attend a speed dating evening
- Try a tasting menu at a local restaurant
- Go to the opera
- See amateur theatre
- Attend an outdoor movie screening with friends
- Do a guided tour of a local football stadium
- Run a marathon
- Go skiing
- Watch live music – go to a concert every month
- Take a road trip…somewhere. Anywhere.
- Watch the sunset or sunrise
- Take a picnic to a local park
- Do yoga in the park
- Rent a bicycle and ride to work
- With a friend or two, try a new restaurant or bar every week
- Go to a music festival
- Go to a football match
Make It Happen
Step away from the familiar and the comfortable. Live for new experiences. No more excuses, no more cancelling engagements, no more “maybe next weekend”. If not now, when?
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"Be brave. Take risks. Nothing can substitute experience."
– Paulo Coelho